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		<title>Happy 7th Birthday Ty</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 02:54:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So it has been a long while since I have posted on here. I go through stages where I just don&#8217;t have much desire to blog and then things change&#8230;like today One of the reasons I started the blog (besides the fact that EVERYONE had a blog at one point) was to write letters to ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So it has been a long while since I have posted on here. I go through stages where I just don&#8217;t have much desire to blog and then things change&#8230;like today <img src='http://www.mcmullen99.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  One of the reasons I started the blog (besides the fact that EVERYONE had a blog at one point) was to write letters to my kids. So with that being said I have some catching up to do from 2011. So here it goes&#8230;</p>
<p>My boy turned 7 in 2011!</p>
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<p>It is so hard to believe that my baby is already 7. Where have the days, months and years gone??? 2011 was a busy year for you buddy. You played organized hockey for the first time (mini-mites) at the beginning of the year and went straight from that into Coach Pitch Baseball with Harris and played soccer with Echo. You absolutely LOVE playing any sport and at this point we are pretty much allowing you to try it all. Anytime you see or hear about someone playing a certain sport, your first response is &#8220;I want to play that&#8221;! You had a great season with baseball, you and Carter were on the same team and Todd and your Dad coached you boys! You also had tons of fun with soccer. You loved the fact that you were playing Echo like your big sister Allie! You also finished Kindergarten at Mary Frank in May of 2011. Mrs. Schindewolf was your teacher (the BEST Kindergarten teacher on the planet by the way) and you loved her! You made lots of friends and learned to read and do so many other new things.</p>
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<p>The summer of 2011 was spent playing at the lake and swimming at Arlington pool. We spent as much time as possible hanging at the pool with our friends. You learned to swim a couple of summers ago, but this year you really took off. You took swimming lessons at Penn and things really seemed to click with your strokes. You were doing front crawl, backstroke, elementary backstroke and you even tried breaststroke! You continued to do your flips off the diving board and got even better at that when Jacob showed you how to bounce before you went off the end! Many, many weekends were spent at the lake! It is our favorite place to be during the summer! You tubed, knee boarded and learned to SKI this year! Your dad, Papa and Uncle Ryan and I were so surprised when you just stood up on those skis! You were amazing!! One thing that had a pretty big impact on you this summer was us getting stuck in a pretty big storm at the lake over Memorial Day weekend. A storm moved in and tornado sirens started going off, which forced us to head out to the garage to take cover in the room under the garage. It all happened so fast and to be honest it scared you quite a bit. From that point forward, you were officially scared of storms. You would watch the weather and you could see the look of fear in your eyes if a storm was even in the forecast. I sure am hoping and praying that this is something that you grow out of&#8230;quickly!</p>
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<p>2011 was also a big wedding year for us/you. Papa and Carol got married in August at the lake. You were the ring bearer and couldn&#8217;t be more proud of your role! Then in September we traveled to Kansas for Uncle Ryan and Aunt Jobrina&#8217;s wedding. What a fun time we had! We stopped off in St. Louis and went up into the Arch! You thought that was pretty cool! At Ryan and Jobrina&#8217;s wedding you carried a sign down the isle that read &#8220;Here Comes the Bride&#8221; and then on your walk down the isle after the wedding you turned it around and it read &#8220;They Lived Happily Ever After&#8221;. You were so handsome all dressed up in your tux and you showed off your dance moves at the reception. Somewhere you learned to break dance and you showed off your skills that night! You had people cheering you on like crazy! You also got to spend time on that trip with Grandma Peterson and Aunt Linda and Uncle Bob from Utah.</p>
<p>The Fall/Winter of 2011 flew by. You played MSA soccer with Dad as your coach and Carter on your team. You went from soccer right into hockey (Mites) with your Dad as your coach too! You also tried out flag football and you keep telling me that you want to play tackle football. I sure hope your mom can take you playing hockey and football when you get older <img src='http://www.mcmullen99.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  You started 1st grade at Mary Frank School with Mrs. Krieger and for the first time you and your sisters are all in school full time at the same school. I better enjoy it this year, because next year it all changes (when Allie goes to Middle School). You seem to have many friends, but tend to be drawn more to the girls&#8230;hmmmm!!!! Anytime I am in your classroom or go to lunch with you there tend to be a lot of girls around <img src='http://www.mcmullen99.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  You love the fact that you have Carter at the same school as you and I hear about many recesses spent playing basketball, football and soccer with Carter, Braden and many other boys. My favorite thing so far in 1st grade has been watching your reading just explode. Reading, at this point, is not your favorite thing (especially if there are alot of words on a page) but you are very good at it. It is just so fun to watch all of your academic skills change by the day! You are also growing like a weed. At the doctor this winter you were 49 1/2 inches tall and 57 lbs. You are still struggling, at times, with asthma and allergies.</p>
<p>Tyler, I cannot even begin to explain to you how much your mommy loves you! You are such a sweet, kind, loving little boy! You have always made my heart melt and that hasn&#8217;t changed. I can&#8217;t imagine not being a mommy to a little boy! You and I have always had this special bond, and though that is still there I have seen you really bond with your Dad over the last year! You don&#8217;t like it when he isn&#8217;t around and when he is home you are constantly asking him to play hockey or some other sport with you! You add so much joy and &#8220;boy&#8221; to our family! The constant tackling your sisters, shooting anyone or anything in sight with nerf guns or swords, kicking the soccer ball with Allie, throwing the football or shooting the puck with your Dad and doing anything to make someone laugh is constant reminder that you are all boy! The last 7 years have been some of the best of my life and I can&#8217;t wait to see (at a slow pace please) the teenager you become in the next 7.  I pray you always know how much God loves you and that you follow hard after him all the days of your life!</p>
<p>I love you Tyler Ryan!</p>
<p>All my love,</p>
<p>Mom</p>
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		<title>Happy 9th Birthday Rachel</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 02:31:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My girl, my baby girl turned 9 in 2011! I can still remember the day I brought you home from the hospital! You were such a sweet, happy, smiley baby and that sweetheart hasn&#8217;t changed! You were in 3 rd grade, in this past year, with Mrs. Seufert&#8217;s  for the second year due to looping! ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My girl, my baby girl turned 9 in 2011!</p>
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<p>I can still remember the day I brought you home from the hospital! You were such a sweet, happy, smiley baby and that sweetheart hasn&#8217;t changed! You were in 3 rd grade, in this past year, with Mrs. Seufert&#8217;s  for the second year due to looping! Mrs. Seufert told me several times that you would just come in to the room and tell her all about your evening and what was going on at home. She said &#8220;Rachel just loves to talk&#8221; <img src='http://www.mcmullen99.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  You did very well in 3rd grade and got great grades and had lots of friends! You are just one of those kids who gets along with just about anyone. You have some BFF&#8217;s, Abby, Izzy and Meadow, but you play with many different people. Your 3rd grade year was also when you seemed to find a boy that you really liked <img src='http://www.mcmullen99.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  That is when mom began reminding you that boys can be friends, but there will not be any&#8221; boyfriends&#8221; for a many years to come!</p>
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<p>The summer of 2010 brought many fun times for our family! We spent as much time as possible swimming at Arlington pool and the on the weekends you would find us at the lake! You absolutely love to swim (though the hot tub may be your most favorite thing ever) and you took swim lessons at Penn. You are a great swimmer and greatly improved your strokes and began the beginning stages of breaststroke and butterfly. During our weekends at the lake we could always find you either playing in the sand or searching for shells on the bottom of the lake. You tubed, knee boarded (which you seem to have a natural talent at, like your Nana), and tried to get up on skis. It didn&#8217;t happen in 2010, but I know that 2011 will be your year!  You also got to spend a week at Springhill overnight camp in Michigan. You were a little nervous about going, but you went with one of your BFF&#8217;s and Allie was there with you too, which made you feel much better! When we picked you up you were all smiles and said that you had a great time, but that you really missed us <img src='http://www.mcmullen99.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  You would much prefer to be at home with your family than anywhere else!</p>
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<p>The fall of 2010 found you playing MSA soccer and practicing with the U9 Echo team! You had fun playing with MSA and you were one of the quickest girls on the team and knew what to do most of the time. You also like to play goalie, which Allie just couldn&#8217;t understand <img src='http://www.mcmullen99.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  There were many times that the other parents would say &#8220;put Rachel in, she knows what to do&#8221;! You were hoping to be able to play for Echo, which is why you were practicing with them, but you decided after soccer season was done that you were done with soccer. It just wasn&#8217;t your sport!  You decicded in the winter of 2010/2011 to try out cheerleading. You cheered for an Upwards basketball team with 2 of your really good friends, Megan and Meadow!  You had fun learning the cheers and being a part of the pyramids. It was at this point, that you dad and I both thought, &#8220;this might just be her thing&#8221;. I guess only time will tell.</p>
<p>Summer 2011 is starting as you are turning 9, you are the lucky one in the family who gets a summer birthday. For your 8th birthday you tried to have a swimming party, but a storm came through and we ended up celebrating in our basement! This year though luck was on your side, the weather was perfect and it was a birthday at Arlington pool all for you! You invited all of your friends and had a fantastic time! One of the things you love in life the most is your family and friends! You absolutely love spending time hanging out with your friends and playing American Girl doll, barbies or moxie girls. You and Abby have also been known to do anything that involves animals! Your heart beats fast for any kind of animal. You have begged and begged for us to get a pet (dog), but since your daddy is allergic that can&#8217;t happen. It absolutely breaks your heart that you don&#8217;t have a pet to love on! I am pretty sure you are the only one in our family who LOVES all types of animals. We actually had a dog in our house for a few days this year and you couldn&#8217;t have been happier!!! The only problem is that the dog had to leave, which made you not very happy! I can totally see you doing something with animals when you grow up.</p>
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<p>Rachel Lauren you are the light and joy in our life! You are constantly making us laugh and smile. You have this way about you, where you will just walk into a room and say something that will crack everyone up! You also have an &#8220;attitude&#8221; about you. It is what I would call sassy and I love it! You are constantly making your dad and I smile and say to you &#8220;where did we find you again?&#8221;, to which you respond, &#8220;the zoo&#8221;! Always the crack up! Though you are sassy and funny you are also emotional. You don&#8217;t like to do things wrong or disappoint your dad or I. You strive to do what is right and to be a good friend. Your favorite place in the world is our house and whenever we are gone for a few days, the first thing you do is come in the house and lay on the couch face first and say &#8220;ahh, I love the smell of our house&#8221;! You love to be at home cuddled on the couch with your dad or I. There are still SO many times where you will do something or say something and all I can think is there is your Nana all over again! You, my girl, are a spitting image!</p>
<p>My prayer for you sweet girl is that you take the joy that  flows out of you and  you use it to love and serve God all the days of our life. You are making a big decision this year by going public with your faith through baptism and I can&#8217;t even begin to tell you how proud I am of you!  I have been praying for this since the day you were born! No matter what you do or where you go, know that your mom and dad will always love you! But always remember that Gods love for you far exceeds our love for you! So live bodly for him babe!</p>
<p>I love you with all I have! You are and will forever be &#8220;my little girl&#8221;!</p>
<p>All my love,</p>
<p>Mom</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>Tyler Rides His Bike</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 23:06:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Allie Water Skis</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 19:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>A Day I&#8217;ve Been Praying For</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 06:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are many prayers I pray for on behalf of my kids. One of the prayers I have always had since the day my kids were born is that they would ask Jesus into their heart someday. My prayer though as never stopped there, I pray that they will love Jesus will everything in them, ...]]></description>
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There are many prayers I pray for on behalf of my kids. One of the prayers I have always had since the day my kids were born is that they would ask Jesus into their heart someday. My prayer though as never stopped there, I pray that they will love Jesus will everything in them, that they will have a personal relationship with Him, that they will follow Him with reckless abandon, and that they will let God&#8217;s light shine through them to others.</p>
<div>Part of my prayers were answered when Allie and Rachel gave their lives to Christ. Allie made that decision at Awana and Rachel at Springhill Day Camp last year. Those 2 days were great days. We rejoiced with Jesus as He welcomed them into the family! Allie then decided that she was ready to be baptized, to show the world that she was in love with her Savior.</div>
<div>After a few months of reading through a baptism book, attending a class and praying with her we decided that this was the year. We invited our family and friends and we rejoiced again as she publicly proclaimed her love for Jesus at Granger Community Church&#8217;s 2010 Baptism.</div>
<div>A day that I&#8217;ve been praying for.</div>
<div>A day that will mark me forever.</div>
<div>A day where I am once again reminded she belongs to Jesus and for that I am eternally grateful!</div>
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		<title>Unbelievable!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 05:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I was uploading back-to-school pictures tonight to Facebook and thinking about the fact that my youngest child is in Kindergarten, I decided to go back and look at what Allie and Rachel looked like when they started Kindergarten. All I can say is unbelievable!!! I cannot believe my girls have gotten so big. There ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I was uploading back-to-school pictures tonight to <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Facebook</span> and thinking about the fact that my youngest child is in Kindergarten, I decided to go back and look at what Allie and Rachel looked like when they started Kindergarten. All I can say is unbelievable!!! I cannot believe my girls have gotten so big. There is a part of me that misses their innocence at 5, but there is another part of me that loves the preteen stage that they are in.  It just reminds me to treasure every day, because before I know it I will be posting pictures of them leaving for college.</p>
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<div style="text-align: center;">Allie&#8217;s first day of Kindergarten</div>
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<p><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_dFU7nhEbwJg/THRx0IMRkUI/AAAAAAAAAT4/VlwpXE_3RnY/s1600/DSC_5368.JPG" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509153384547062082" style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: hand; width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_dFU7nhEbwJg/THRx0IMRkUI/AAAAAAAAAT4/VlwpXE_3RnY/s400/DSC_5368.JPG" border="0" alt="" /></a></p>
<div style="text-align: center;">Allie&#8217;s first day of 4<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> grade!</div>
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<div style="text-align: center;">Rachel&#8217;s first day of Kindergarten!</div>
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<div style="text-align: center;">Rachel&#8217;s first day of 3rd grade!</div>
<div style="text-align: left;">I am the mom I am today because of these girls, they help make me a better person everyday. I am so proud of the young women they have become, but it sure makes me realize that time flies!</div>
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		<title>Camp songs!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 05:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Allie and Rachel went to Springhill Camp in MI this summer for 5 days. They had a blast and asked to go back as soon as we picked them up. This was Allie&#8217;s 2nd year at camp and one of my favorite things from her first year were the camp songs she came home singing. ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Allie and Rachel went to Springhill Camp in MI this summer for 5 days. They had a blast and asked to go back as soon as we picked them up. This was Allie&#8217;s 2nd year at camp and one of my favorite things from her first year were the camp songs she came home singing. Last summer we sang camp songs for about 2 straight months and I loved every minute of it.</p>
<div>So needless to say, I was excited to hear what songs they would be singing this year. They came home with a few new ones and as expected our whole family has learned them and will just randomly break out in song. One of my favorite songs from this year, was the cheer that Allie and Abby&#8217;s (Allie&#8217;s BFF) tepee came up with. They stayed in one of about 5 tepees and the name of their tepee was Ojibway (it took me about 2 days to figure out how to say it right). Supposedly the Ojibway girls came up this cheer. The cheer really has nothing to do with camp, but I still think it is my favorite camp song so far.</div>
<div>Introducing Allie and Abby and their Ojibway cheer!</div>
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		<title>Happy 8th Birthday Rachel!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 05:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can&#8217;t believe you are 8! Where have those 8 years gone Rach? I can literally remember the night you were born like it was yesterday! As I think back on the last 8 year years, one thing that stands out to me is that you were &#8220;you&#8221; from the very beginning. Your dad and ...]]></description>
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<div>I can&#8217;t believe you are 8! Where have those 8 years gone Rach? I can literally remember the night you were born like it was yesterday! As I think back on the last 8 year  years, one thing that stands out to me is that you were &#8220;you&#8221; from the very beginning. Your dad and I never had to guess how you were feeling as a little one, because your facial expressions always gave it away, and that is still true today. Your attitude is one of the things that I love the most about you! You are always making us laugh with your random comments and looks and I hope that never changes.</div>
<div>This past year you have grown so much. You just finished your 2nd grade year. Your teacher was Mrs. Seufert and you will have her again in 3rd grade. You loved her and grew so much academically this year. You also made some new friends this year and loved hanging out with Grace and Izzy in school. You still continue to be one of those kids that is friends with everyone and likes to hang out with different people. You played soccer and basketball this past year and liked them both. You are also still doing piano lessons (not always your favorite thing, but a must in my book) and participating in Girl Scouts. You continue to love to swim and be at Papa&#8217;s lake. We tried to get you up on ski&#8217;s last year and will try again this year. Some of your favorite things are catching insects of any type (right now you have a bunch of caterpillar&#8217;s in a bug catcher sitting in the garage), playing with your friends, taking bike rides, climbing trees, playing American Girl dolls with your sister, reading to your brother, playing on the computer and watching movies together as a family. You LOVE to be together as a family and for that I am so grateful.</div>
<div>Rachel, I don&#8217;t even have the right words to tell you how much I love you! You are constantly bringing a smile to my face and everyone else that knows you. Your love and enthusiasm for life shows in all that you do. Don&#8217;t ever let anyone take away the joy you have for life sweetie, always keep that fun loving, go with the flow attitude. I know that God is going to do great things with your life and I am so glad that he is giving me a front row seat. My prayer for you sweet girl is that you always live life to it&#8217;s fullest, that you never back down from what you know is right and that you follow hard after God with all that you do. No matter where life takes you or what decisions you make along the way, know that your dad and I will always be praying for you and will always be your number 1 fans! I am so glad I get to be your mom!</div>
<div>I love you with all my heart!</div>
<div>Love, Mom</div>
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		<title>Ryan Marques, J.D.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 01:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have a lawyer in our family! Let me introduce you to my brother, Ryan. He graduated with his law degree last Saturday and is set to take the bar in August and he has a job lined up already. Assuming he passes the bar (which I know he will) he starts his job at ...]]></description>
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<div>Let me introduce you to my brother, Ryan. He graduated with his law degree last Saturday and is set to take the bar in August and he has a job lined up already. Assuming he passes the bar (which I know he will) he starts his job at a law firm in downtown Indianapolis this fall.</div>
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<div>I couldn&#8217;t be prouder!</div>
<div>If you would have told me 25 years ago that he would be a lawyer, I would have laughed. This was the kid who couldn&#8217;t sit still to save his life. I am pretty sure he could have been diagnosed with ADHD. This was the kid who drove me and my friends crazy (don&#8217;t believe me&#8230;really&#8230;just ask them). He had no idea what personal space meant. This was the kid who I remember having to hang upside down so he would spit out whatever he was choking on. This was the kid that schoolwork didn&#8217;t always come easy to. I can remember my mom and I working with him for hours on what a &#8220;quarter till&#8221; and &#8220;quarter after&#8221; meant.</div>
<div>Many things changed as he got older. He took all that energy and became a soccer star in HS and College. He became a great student, graduating from Butler with a double major and speaking Spanish fluently. He worked for a couple of years in community development and then decided to become a lawyer, working in immigration so that he could give a voice to those who don&#8217;t have one.</div>
<div>I couldn&#8217;t be prouder.</div>
<div>My brother and I are 9 years apart and there were many times in my life that I felt like a second mother to him. When we were younger that feeling was more of an annoyance. As time has passed it has turned into a feeling of joy and pride. 5 years ago that title of &#8220;second mother&#8221; came full circle when our mother passed away. The feelings we experienced during that time can&#8217;t be put into words, but we went through it together and came out on the other side even closer.</div>
<div>So as I stood at Ryan&#8217;s graduation last weekend it was a bittersweet moment. I was so proud of him and his accomplishments, but I was so sad that our mom was not there to celebrate with us. She would have been so proud of him! I told Ryan I wished she had been there with us. It was a moment we shared and I will never forget it.</div>
<div>We have a lawyer in the family and this sister &#8211; aka second mother &#8211; couldn&#8217;t be prouder!!!</div>
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		<title>The Negotiation</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 02:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know about you, but when I read the title of this post I think it sounds like the title of a movie. A movie where Mel Gibson is negotiating some sort of deal with the &#8220;bad guys&#8221;, a movie where it all is great in the beginning, it gets tense in the middle ...]]></description>
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<div>I don&#8217;t know about you, but when I read the title of this post I think it sounds like the title of a movie. A movie where Mel Gibson is negotiating some sort of deal with the &#8220;bad guys&#8221;, a movie where it all is great in the beginning, it gets tense in the middle and in the end everyone ends up happy. I am one of those people that loves movies with &#8220;happy endings&#8221; and I think the reason for that is I want life to go smoothly and happily. I want everyone (especially those I love) to get along and love each other well and make good decisions, but I know that is not living in reality. I know when push comes to shove that alot of times we lie and deceive and make bad choices. Instead of doing what we know is right, we do what we think will keep us out of trouble. Learning to do the &#8220;right thing&#8221; is something that happens over time and at times is taught to us. Now that I am a parent I have the privilege of navigating those &#8220;teaching moments&#8221; so that my kids grow up to know right from wrong and so that they understand just how much God loves them.</div>
<div>Last Friday was a normal Friday morning. I got up with the kids to get them ready for school and as I was making breakfast I noticed that child Z (named has been changed to protect the innocent) was playing with a stuffed animal I had never seen before. When I questioned child Z about it said child responded that they had gotten it with one of their Christmas gifts. I knew that this was not the case, so I tried again. &#8220;Where did you get that stuffed animal?&#8221; Child Z then said that a friend had given it said child. That would have been all fine and dandy except that Child X spoke up and explained that this friend had never seen it either. So at this point I know for a fact that Child Z is lying to me, so I do the whole motherly thing where my voice and facial expressions change (as to show that I now mean business) and I continue to question said child. &#8220;Really where did you get it?&#8221;&#8230;..Child Z says nothing&#8230;.&#8221;Where did you get it?&#8221;&#8230;.again nothing and said child is just staring at me&#8230;&#8221;This is your last chance, where did you get it?&#8221;&#8230;.the stare continues. I would love to tell you that I remained calm and collected, but that is not the case. Every time I asked the question I got more and more frustrated, my voice got a little higher and I got a little more serious. Child Z continued to look at me until I finally told said child that if they didn&#8217;t start talking I would no longer be volunteering in this child&#8217;s room at school. At that point the tears started flowing and Child Z fessed up, &#8220;I took it from my room at church&#8221;. I questioned Child Z a few times about why said child would do such a thing and then told said child that there would be 2 consequences. One for stealing and the other one for lying. I was very disappointed that said child had chosen to steal, but I have to be honest I was ticked that said child lied about it. I can&#8217;t tell you how many conversations have been had in this house about how we never lie, no matter how hard it is to tell the truth.</div>
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<div>Fast forward about 9 hours, time delay due to Child Z being in school and conversations about what the consequences should be between Daryl and I. Child Z is then told that the consequence for stealing is that a letter of apology will be written to the person who the stuffed animal belongs to along with finding the owner and returning it, Child Z will also need to tell the teachers in the room at church what said child did and face whatever consequences where given to said child by them. I then told Child Z that the consequence for lying was that said child would not be participating in family night (which means this child lost out on having dessert and watching a movie with the rest of us). At that point the tears started to flow and before I knew it the sobs came. I finished talking with Child Z and then left said child alone to calm down and I went back to my normal routine. About 30 minutes after that I walk into the kitchen to find what you see in the picture above sitting on my counter. Child Z was trying to negotiate with me, said child was trying to give me all the money I wanted so that said child could be a part of family night. The funny part about this is that it didn&#8217;t really surprise me, Child Z tends to do things like this. Child Z is what we call our negotiator, I swear someday said child could have a career in this. As cute and innovative as I thought this way I stood my ground and told the Negotiator I didn&#8217;t want the money and the consequence still stood.</div>
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<div>Now I would love to tell you that I didn&#8217;t want to give in to Child Z&#8217;s negotiation, that it didn&#8217;t kill me to listen to said child sob upstairs while the rest of us watched a movie. Even Child Z&#8217;s siblings begged me to let said child come downstairs, it just wasn&#8217;t the same without this child. I stood my ground though, it was important that Child Z learned that lying will not be tolerated in this house and that you should always tell the truth no matter how hard it is. It was one of those teaching moments where it was imperative that Child Z understood that there are consequences to our actions, but that no matter what said child&#8217;s actions are that my love for said child will never change. I tell my children all the time that they can&#8217;t do anything to change my love for them. I truly believe that I never really &#8220;knew&#8221; God till I had children. God may not agree with the decisions we make and at times there are consequences to face but it doesn&#8217;t change His love for us and for that I am grateful!</div>
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